Honesty, Truth, Kindness at the Edge of Life

4/27/2025 A fellow physician’s post this morning caught my eye. Thank you Dr. Mary Leung for sharing. This is an incredibly important topic & hits close to home.  Clarity, honesty, compassion, truthfulness, & kindness are so very important, throughout life, but also at life’s edge. Witnessing a loved one go through treatment for a terminal … More Honesty, Truth, Kindness at the Edge of Life

Light the Way

11/14/24 May we be the light that leads through the darkness ahead and sees through the veils of lies. May we keep hope alive. May we love, teach, and live through kindness. May we instill the next generation with hope – instead of fear and despair. May we evoke the truths, be bright, and shine … More Light the Way

2 years

12/8/23 2 words changed the trajectory of the past 2 years. 2 intensive chemotherapy protocols. 2 time PanCAN PurpleStride Grand Club member and Team Captain for Team Cat King Crusaders/TeamCat. 2 research centers visited for information about clinical trials. 2 personal loved ones diagnosed; one continues to push on, and one now swings and dances … More 2 years

What if PHYSICIANS led the future of healthcare?

My thoughts on Stark Laws, Anti-Kickbacks, & Hospital Ownership Bans. 10/22/23 Wow. It’s all about control. Designating what physicians can/cannot do in terms of business.  An attempt to control ethical decision making by some of THE MOST ETHICAL PROFESSIONALS ALIVE.  I think puppeteering policy shapers forgot – or perhaps never actually understood/realized – what it … More What if PHYSICIANS led the future of healthcare?

Drowning

One never thinks it can happen to them. But I was watching. They know how to swim. We’re always so careful. I thought she was right beside me. I only turned away for a second. He was napping. But the gate was closed. Children are curious creatures. They are fearless. Impulsive. Daring. They try new … More Drowning

Not Today.

4/17/2023 I just finished a visit with my rheumatologist. Well, I actually finished 30-40 minutes ago and have been sitting in my car, staring at this sign, amidst sunshine, blue sky, and harshly blowing strong winds, thinking. Contemplating. Wondering. See, I’m exhausted. I’m spent. There are plenty of “to dos” and I’m currently trying to … More Not Today.

Change and Choice

4/10/23 I wrote this piece 3 years ago, in 2020, during the beginning of the COVID19 pandemic. As I reread this entry, and reflect on the past 3 years, I realize that one can replace “COVID19” with “cancer”, “immunologic illness” “depression”, or any new life altering chronic disease/diagnosis/major disruption/transition in one’s life. The one constant … More Change and Choice

Made for More

1/17/2023 Today is the day. Over a year in the making! Today is the day I became a best selling author! And the BEST part?!? I’m one of over 40+ physicians that became best selling authors today! Together. All of us. Lifting each other up to succeed. Each of us is a member of the … More Made for More

Moments, Solitude, Self Reflection

Yes. Yes! YES‼️ I was just thinking how important it is to reflect, think about, & really be curious about what it is we, as individuals, want in life. We are constantly inundated by what others want us to want & it takes STOPPING & THINKING & REFLECTING to really figure it out. It’s ok … More Moments, Solitude, Self Reflection

Courage to Change: Become an Anti-Bully

This entry is inspired by Dr. Adam Harrison’s social media posts today, 11/18/22. Bullying. Belittling. Making one feel worthless, unvalued, not enough. Constantly berating & focusing on deficits rather than helping to improve & recognizing what’s done well PRIOR to pointing out potential areas needing improvement. Being made to feel as if anything & everything … More Courage to Change: Become an Anti-Bully